Ooookay.
Ooookay. Now we are at the point where I have to deep breathe and not hate the mom's controlling behavior. While it helps to keep checking and reassure myself that I am not crazy, wrong, or screwed up, it also reinforces that you aren't going to change the other person. Therefore, will not change the metaphorical punchings that keeps running through my brain. Still makes it hard to get out of bed, though.
Aaand the passive aggressive is showing, holy moley, is it ever.
ReplyDeleteOkay, it has backed off a little. Yay, mom is a wee bit calmer.
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