Omg, this is such a disaster. Too long, sum up. No funeral b/c aunt lost it. So now memorial service. We knew this yesterday and was being dealt with, sort of. No funeral, no officiant. So my sister is doing this. My cousin asked my sister if she would ask me to sing b/c my uncle liked classical music. My sister sent email last night, but of course I wasn't checking, so she called late this am. Hunting on Internet, running thru misc services, discussing, seeing if I had any voice, warning this wasn't going to be too good, etc. So now I'm trying to prep Mozart at the last minute, a capella, and deal with my family. Gods help me. No, really, that was summed up.