I posted a bit more detail elsewhere about the creeper business, to which I've gotten a lot of sensible and supportive replies. They also asked intelligent questions, which then prompted a lot of internet reading. All of the answers, descriptions, explanations, etc. are out there. And yet. Therefore, I've been thinking, and this is what I think: This behavior is predatory, the responsibility of the predator, and nobody is that socially inept, or clueless, nor does having Aspergers or Autism excuse you (per people with said conditions, as well as professionals). It's never an accident, it is always about control, and it is almost always deliberately manipulative. Narcissism is also not an excuse. In fact, it makes you more dangerous and in need of professional help, should such be of any benefit, which it often is not. Now that I've read up on the latest unreal and egregious behaviors that have been documented over the last several years in the con community, I'd li...