- mild lock -
- mild lock -
Well, mom was doing ok. I guess she really just can't handle anything that isn't a consistent, stable situation. She is being very inappropriate because my dad insisted on having a window covered so he could sleep (because light bothering) and my mother has trouble seeing at night and apparently there are no possible compromise options (there are, but she wanted what she wanted) and she is muttering at my dad and me about breaking her hip and then told me how counseling wouldn't help with this (I didn't bring it up - she did) and how she didn't want to "leave me with this" (ah, we're back to the threats of taking everything and leaving my father, again, I see - because those are totally appropriate ways to express her distress) but she can't handle this situation, etc.
I do realize she has no inner monologue and that is why all these horrible statements come out of her mouth, but it still boils down to the fact that apparently under pressure she is incredibly selfish and self-centered.
P.S. My dad got thoroughly pissed off and went and slept in a different room, regardless of if it was most comfortable for him physically, because he didn't want to hear the sotto voce passive aggressive broken hip mutterings.
Back to status quo!
P.P.S. So far, hospice is being great already.
Well, mom was doing ok. I guess she really just can't handle anything that isn't a consistent, stable situation. She is being very inappropriate because my dad insisted on having a window covered so he could sleep (because light bothering) and my mother has trouble seeing at night and apparently there are no possible compromise options (there are, but she wanted what she wanted) and she is muttering at my dad and me about breaking her hip and then told me how counseling wouldn't help with this (I didn't bring it up - she did) and how she didn't want to "leave me with this" (ah, we're back to the threats of taking everything and leaving my father, again, I see - because those are totally appropriate ways to express her distress) but she can't handle this situation, etc.
I do realize she has no inner monologue and that is why all these horrible statements come out of her mouth, but it still boils down to the fact that apparently under pressure she is incredibly selfish and self-centered.
P.S. My dad got thoroughly pissed off and went and slept in a different room, regardless of if it was most comfortable for him physically, because he didn't want to hear the sotto voce passive aggressive broken hip mutterings.
Back to status quo!
P.P.S. So far, hospice is being great already.
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