I'm going to SF to help because my brother is having surgery and they have a one year-old.

I'm going to SF to help because my brother is having surgery and they have a one year-old. My SIL and I kept trying to connect to talk ahead of time about what was what, but that was at best a 1/10 success. Ergo, I am going with very little info, and my parents talk about their apt/condo like there's very little in it insofar as food or toiletries and other stuff. I mean, they obviously have stuff for the baby, but I haven't a clue as to schedules, food/cooking, when I need to be at the condo and when I don't. Guess I'll find out when I get there. I am taking a guess as to what sort of clothing I should have, since there was a suggestion that excursions might occur, depending on how people are feeling. If you know me, you know having no plan and little info makes me uncomfortable. Is anxious making. I'm also still infinitely asymptotically approaching recovery from the stupid URI. Yay.